Don't Compare

Do Healthy Competition

Hey! Here again. How are you all?? I wish you all are good and safe. So today's  we are going to talk about it something which stay with us , it is something we are always facing from the childhood to adulthood happening with everyone in everyday and every second . Can you guys wanna give a guess what it is ?? ‘COMPETITION’.

'COMPETITION' we hear this words thousands and may be more than that . This something which we faces everywhere we go in a party or family function or at shopping centers, even at our own home where we compared with our cousins and siblings also . You know what really competition is when we start comparing ourselves with other that they are better than us or we are better than them, but one things has to understand that everyone have their own potential or capacity and qualities. Yeah in this world competition is in huge amount because the takers are more and the things are less than it's naturally come into the actions of competition. Competition arises when we eagerly want to compete with other not to achieve that but wants to put others down and proving that we are better.

You guys ever heard about healthy competition. Yeah you guys are thinking how it can be possible. Right? But it can be when you consider that you are in competition with yourself only because than your aim became simple to be better than what you were yesterday. When we compete with other and imitate what other are doing, how well they are doing in their life this is a point where competition begins and then we trying to take over them without focusing that we have others qualities and they have different and when we compete with others we are losing which we are good at . To chasing them we forget our life and our qualities are different from other's because everyone has their own lifestyle and peculiarity. 

Competition gives birth to jealousy which is harmful for everyone who is with us in that journey. In jealousy people play dirty games to win that thing but they forget the rule of life and cheat and manipulates. Dirty games never give you happiness. If you really wanna compare with others look what they are good at how they maintain their life (personal and work life). How can that person always happy? Learn that.

 

Everyone who really work hard they gonna achieve everything they want to achieve but time span are different some gets really soon and some will get later because when you compete with others you forget your life motives what you really meant for .  Be in competition with yourself this will make you a better person and gives you experience to do things more graceful and lesser mistakes. When you see other people’s just take look which they good at and try to adopt it, it will take you to the beautiful life journey.

So, I’m seeing that the idea of competition is so much ingrained in our minds, not even at the school level, but even at the Post Graduate level or any aspect of our lives, that it creates a lot of unnecessary stress. So, what can be really done about this?

Competition is a good thing. If you’re incompetent and you’re in a competition, you will feel stressed. So, if you want to be in a competitive situation, the thing is you have to work on your competence. Right now, the problem is you’re tweaking your desire; you’re not tweaking your competence. This is what has to happen – that we must teach children to tweak their competence, not their desire. We are calling this ambition; we’re calling this goal oriented-ness. Ambition means what? You tweaked up your desire. You’ll suffer, invariably. If you tweak up your competence, you will see wherever you go you’re doing better than what people expect you to. So naturally things will go well for you. Competition is not the bad thing – lack of competence is the bad thing. We must understand this – in this country this is very important because we still think our education is cooked in heaven because I… people tell me temples are crowded just before the examination.

Just the wrong place to be. When your examination is coming, you sitting in the temple are just the wrong place to be. In the vacation you sat in the temple, great! So instead of competence, we have big desires. If you focus enough on enhancing your competence, you will see there is such joy in breaking limitations every day and becoming something better. You don’t care a damn how somebody else is doing. Yes. If every day if you’re breaking limitations of whom you are, if your competence, you’re working constantly to expand, you don’t even have the time to look at somebody how is he doing because this is such a great thing happening within you. So please focus on your competence. Competition, you don’t bother. If you’re good, you will be on the top, otherwise you’ll be somewhere.

"A Healthy Competition Is About Competing With Ourselves Rather Than Others To Become A Better Version Of Ourselves.."